Love is usually extreme by default in the city of New York. It is quick, emotions are intense, and relationships may feel devouring before they stabilize. Most individuals approach me believing that depth in love means sacrifice—that to love deeply, you must bend, adjust, or slowly disappear. This is one of the most harmful myths…
Women in New York City usually receive applause that they are doing it all. Our careers, relationships, families, friendships, and emotional ecosystems are highly competently managed. Outwardly, it appears to be a strength. On the inside, it can often be a form of silent weariness. A lot of this weariness is the result of work…
Competence is applauded in New York City. Being dependable, tough, emotionally controlled, and well put together is often seen as maturity. Most of the individuals I work with are respected because they manage life well. They are the ones others rely on. The people who handle crises and still appear unshaken.
And yet, they are…
Love in New York City is very fast. The connection and disconnection aspects are fast, and people tend to fault the time, the compatibility, or the situation when relationships fail. However, in my work, through NYC, USA, and other places, I have learned that timing is seldom the problem in an actual relationship. They fight…
Self-love in New York City is a topic of conversation as though it were a way of life—something to make a decision and follow it through. We are also advised to draw limits, select ourselves, leave, shine up, and move. But what I am observing in my labor informs me quite to the contrary.
Self-love…
Organizations like International Women Day are effective. They confirm narratives that were once suppressed, raise voices that were once unheard, and grant long-neglected journeys the recognition they deserve for resilience, courage, and contribution. I have stood on a few of these platforms - internationally, publicly, and visibly - and I have profound respect for what…
Healing is a phenomenon that is commonly given as a breakthrough moment in New York City. A realization. A decision. A new beginning where everything turns out to be lighter. However, in the treatment room, the treatment does not appear like that.
It looks quiet. It looks uneven. And in more cases than in others,…
Something is strong when women come together without competition. Listening rather than proving. Observing rather than making comparisons. Healing rather than performance.
This fact was realised to me in Jalandhar, as Love That Was Meant for Me was first presented in Punjab, and it happened in The Bookworms, which is a women-run book club that…
My name is Shalini Chuganee, an Influential Woman, and I recently wrote about betrayal for Mumbai Mirror, a piece that sparked powerful conversations far beyond India, including with many of my clients in New York City. In a world obsessed with headlines, gossip, and social-media debates about “who cheated on whom,” I want to take…
A career is noisy at times--rolls, achievements, applause. And moments which come unannounced, but fall deep. Being a recognized writer by Writers Global 2025 was one of these events to me. Not because it had become successful, but because it had recognized something much more personal: a body of work which had been based on…
When individuals mention Nari Shakti, they tend to envision everything but a woman who is not well-put together, who does not fall, who does not lose confidence in herself. This has been quite a different reality of mine. My strength was honed in the intimate situations when I would choose to find the strength to…
As grown-ups, we tend to force children to reveal their feelings to us. We ask questions, look for explanations. We wait for words. But children are living in a world a long time before language is able to follow. Emotions come in first, in the body, in behaviour, in silence, and in most cases on…
